How do I control my stress/anger, am I taking my husband for granted?

Don't run away that's not going to work. NOw in my opinion concerning the economic issue you both should divide paying certain things like for example you pay the groceries and so on and he pays the rent and so on. you both should combine together and work out someway that both of you are paying something. NOw for the cleaning i think its best if one week you clean and he cleans the other and about the fighting instead of yelling and cursing at each other try to sit down and work things out like people instead of fighting like animals trust me this will work cause i do this with my husband and if it doesn't work then i don't noe what else to say.